You're invited
You're one of the first couples to try R.O.S. Welcome.
Start with your free 5-minute Snapshot. When you're done, R.O.S. gives you a link to send your partner, and you'll see the two of you side by side.
Start my SnapshotRelationship Operating System
You already know you're different. R.O.S. shows you exactly where — and what to do about it, day to day.
Start here · the first question
When we're deciding something big, I'm usually…
Tap the one that sounds most like you. You'll see what it says about you right away.
One answer is a hint, not your style. The full Snapshot takes about 5 minutes and shows your style, and how it fits with your partner's.
Keep going · 24 more questionsFree. No account needed to start. Built on TTI Success Insights.
On a computer? Point your phone's camera here to open R.O.S. on your phone. It works best as an app there.
Good evening, Jack.
Our why“So home feels calm, not tense.”
Today
How smoothly are things running with Emma?
This week · Financial1 of 3 met
We decided: “Money talks on Sunday mornings”
✓Look at the budget together
✓Date nightFri 7 PM
Each of you: 2 Financial tasks1/2 · 1/2
This week
Five areas. One direction.
How you talk, decide and show up for each other
2 of 3 done this week3 of 3 done this week · niceJack · Natural
Emma · Natural
Your widest gap is Steadiness (25 vs. 86): one of you wants to move, the other wants warning. Neither of you is broken.
Rehearsing with Emma
Ask for more help at home
Emma · Rehearsal
Okay. I didn't know it was bothering you that much. What do you want me to do differently?Coach's tip
You named the problem without blaming. Next time, say what you need before the details. Try: “I need us to decide this together by Friday.”See it in 20 seconds
One week with R.O.S.
Jack and Emma are made up. The rhythm is the real thing: small moments during the week, and twenty minutes together on Sunday.
Emma puts a thank-you in the jar.
That's a week with R.O.S. Small moments during the week, and twenty minutes together on Sunday.
Try yours · free SnapshotIn their words
How it works
Three steps. About 20 minutes a week.
- See how you're each wiredA free 5-minute Snapshot each, then the two of you side by side.
- Do a few small things each weekShort tasks written for your two styles, in five areas of life together.
- Huddle once a weekTwenty minutes to celebrate, talk about one thing, and set next week. See the questions
Couples of faith can turn on Scripture (NIV), Reading together and Praying for you. Free 30-day prayer guide →
See everything R.O.S. does
Each button opens a different part of R.O.S. Tap any one, in any order. Swipe the row to see them all.
How it works
R.O.S. runs on four parts. We call it BOND.
Each part builds on the one before it — and then it loops. The Dashboard shows where you're drifting, the Agreement explains why, and Nurture hands you the next practice.
B
Blueprint
Who am I?
Your personal profile: how you act (DISC), what drives you, and the gap between your natural and adapted style.
IN THE APP · ME
O
Operating Agreement
Who are we together?
Two Blueprints turned into one shared understanding: how you communicate, decide, complement, and clash.
IN THE APP · US
N
Nurture
What do we work on?
Small, repeatable tasks — some just yours, some shared — chosen to target your clash points.
IN THE APP · PRACTICE
D
Dashboard
Is it working?
Your daily scores side by side, the five areas, this week's goals, and what R.O.S. noticed, all in your Weekly Huddle. A mirror, not a scoreboard.
IN THE APP · HOME
Know you. Know us. Grow us. Show us. — every week.
A week with R.O.S.
Small, shared, and on purpose.
It starts with one sentence you write together: your why. It sits at the top of both phones and opens every Huddle. Then the week takes care of itself.
- MondayFresh tasks
A few small things in five areas, written for how each of you is wired, and an optional 7 AM email with last week's wins.
Relational · 2 of 5 this week - Tuesday nightTonight's question
One question waiting on Practice, picked from where your styles differ most. Over dinner, on a drive, or before bed.
“How much warning do you like before plans change?” - ThursdayTogether time
One of you suggests a time for a together task, the other taps yes, and both phones remind you.
✓ Thu 7:30 PM · planned together - Huddle nightThe Weekly Huddle
The night before, your dashboard opens and you each answer two private questions. At the Huddle they're revealed side by side. R.O.S. walks you both through five steps, about 20 minutes: look at the week, celebrate, talk, set next week, commit.
Jack is in · Emma is in - Every 3 monthsQuarterly Reset
Look back on 12 weeks, check your agreements, choose next quarter's focus, and open your thank-you jar.
This quarter: Financial · Physical
Missed a week? There's nothing to catch up on. R.O.S. welcomes you back with one small thing.On your calendars. Add the Huddle and Reset to Apple, Google or Outlook on both phones, with the agenda built in, and R.O.S. taps you both 15 minutes before.
Nurture · Practice
Insight without action fades. So R.O.S. gives you reps.
Where you end up is the sum of small decisions. R.O.S. asks you to make a few on purpose each week, in the five areas that shape your direction, with tasks written for fast movers, for steady ones, and for the two of you together. Hover or tap an area.
Relational
2 of 3 done this weekHow you talk, decide, share the load and show up for each other
Up to 5 tasks per area each week (3 with the free Snapshot): enough to progress, few enough to finish.
Mine + ours — individual tasks and shared ones.
Your own tasks, too. Add one, give it a day and a time, and put it on your calendar.
Small reps beat big gestures. Ten minutes every week beats one weekend retreat.
Built for real life
For the hard moments, and the good ones.
Most weeks are ordinary. R.O.S. helps with the two kinds that aren't: the tense ones and the ones worth remembering.
R.O.S. finds the pattern your two styles fall into. You name it together and pick a pause word. When it starts, either of you can call a 20-minute pause, and the other phone knows.
After a pause or a rough day, five minutes to repair it the way your partner needs: what they need to hear, your own instinct to watch, and one small thing to do this week.
Practice a hard conversation while Coach plays your partner, from how they're wired. Coach remembers what you've talked about, on your phone only.
Your first Huddle, four in a row, the starter finished, your first Reset. Both phones celebrate, with words that mean something, not points.
A week before your anniversary or a birthday, an idea that fits how they're wired. Hard days get a gentle note, never a notification.
One tap at the top of Home lets your partner know you're thinking of them. No words needed. With faith on, it becomes “Praying for you,” with a short note.
A trip, a sick week, a new baby. One break for both of you: reminders go quiet, streaks freeze, and R.O.S. welcomes you back with one small thing.
Every “I felt it” and every thank-you, kept in one place. On your anniversary, R.O.S. pulls a few out for you to read to each other.
Find your loop
Every relationship has a loop. What's yours?
Four quick questions, about 30 seconds. No sign-up.
Getting started
About twenty minutes to your first shared insight.
How much you understand each otherMost of it lands in the first 15 minutes
- 1 minChoose how you'll set upTwo phones, or together on one. In one-phone mode R.O.S. tells you when to turn the screen away.A private space for each of youInsight
- 6 minTake the Snapshot25 quick questions about how you act, how you work, and what drives you.Your own style, in plain wordsInsight
- 12 minInvite your partnerSend a link. They take their Snapshot on their own phone, and your profiles connect.Two profiles, linkedInsight
- 15 minOpen UsYour two profiles side by side for the first time: where you're alike, and where you're not.Your first shared insightInsight
- 20 minPick your first practicesChoose an area and a few small tasks, most under five minutes.Something to try this weekInsight
Not just for couples
Any relationship that matters can run on R.O.S.
The same two profiles read differently depending on who you are to each other. R.O.S. rewrites every insight and every task for the relationship you link.
Couple
Spouse · Partner · Fiancé(e)
The Couple Map, plus practice in five areas: relational, financial, physical, academic and spiritual.
A shared taskTen minutes, phones away: each says one high and one low from the day.
Family
Parent · Child · Sibling · Friend
The Family Map: helping each other, plans, time together and family roots, plus practice in the same five areas.
A shared taskLook through old photos together and tell the stories behind three of them.
Professional
Teammate · Manager · Direct report
The Working Relationship Report: roles and ownership, decisions, feedback, meetings — and who leads, when one of you manages the other. Practice runs in the same five areas, written for work.
A shared taskAgree how each of you prefers to get bad news — in person, a call, or a message.
Your two AI coaches
Coaches who have read your profile.
Ask her anything, any time. She answers from how the two of you are actually wired, and helps you turn what you know into wisdom.
The AI Executive Coach, for RMC Capital Coaching clients: leading, deciding and career goals, from your own TTI assessment. Meet Caiden
Understand yourself
Why you push, go quiet, or over-explain when things get tense — and what you need on a hard week.
Understand the other person
What they're probably feeling, and how to bring up something hard in a way they can hear.
Improve the relationship
Get ready for your Weekly Huddle, pick this week's task, and turn an insight into one small step.
Rehearse a hard conversation
Practice what you want to say while Coach plays your partner, from how they're wired. Then get one tip. With an assessment or Coach Unlimited.
Executive Coach, for RMC Capital Coaching clients
Lead a team, get ready for a hard conversation with your boss, make a decision, or plan your next 90 days. It coaches from your own TTI assessment and follows up on what you commit to. It's offered through RMC Capital Coaching, included for its coaching clients. More about the Executive Coach →
What Coach costs
Try 1 question free. Any TTI assessment includes 14 a day, or 24 with an EQ assessment. Assessments include Coach for 6 months. Or get Coach Unlimited for $14.99 a month or $119 a year, for you and your partner, with or without an assessment. The Executive Coach is offered only through RMC Capital Coaching, for its clients. Coach is powered by Claude, an AI model made by Anthropic. It only sees what your partner has chosen to share, and your conversation stays on your phone.
See Sage answer a real question
Sage · AI Relationship Coach
Probably not anger. Emma is high Steadiness — going quiet is how she protects the peace while she works out what she actually thinks.
You're high D, so silence reads to you like a yes or a shutdown. It's usually neither. She needs time, and she needs to know you'll still be there when she's ready.
Try this week
When she goes quiet, say “Take your time — can we come back to it after dinner?” Then let dinner be dinner.Example reply. Sage is AI, can be wrong, and isn't a therapist.
Who's behind R.O.S.
Built to help people understand each other.
Why I built it“I built R.O.S. to help people find their way back to one another through a deeper understanding of how each of us thinks, feels, and behaves. My hope is that it sparks at least one life‑changing revelation in someone’s journey toward a healthier relationship.”
Royce Clemens, creator of R.O.S.
Founder, RMC Capital Coaching, LLC · Co‑Owner, Jackson Clemens Capital, LLC
More about Royce
- Certified in DISC through TTI Success Insights, now completing certification in Driving Forces and Emotional Quotient (EQ)
- Background in investment banking (previously held Series 63 and 67)
- Division I volleyball at Penn State
Royce's wife competed in Division I gymnastics at West Virginia University. Both learned early that a team wins on trust, honest feedback and a little practice every day. R.O.S. brings that same rhythm home.
On YouTube
Short videos from Royce.
How people are wired, and small things that make relationships easier, in a few minutes each.
Videos play from YouTube when you tap them. See all on YouTube →
Pricing
Start free. Go deeper when you're ready.
Start free with the Snapshot. When you want the full picture of the two of you, the relationship map is a one-time purchase, priced like a professional assessment, not an app.
Snapshot
Enough to see the pattern and start talking about it.
$0
What's included
- The 25-question R.O.S. Snapshot
- Your natural DISC style and top motivator
- Your two profiles side by side on Us
- Starter tasks in all five areas
- A four-week progress trend
- R.O.S. Coach — try 1 question free, or Coach Unlimited for two: $14.99/month or $119/year
Estimated natural style only. No adapted style, no Driving Forces, no EQ, so the insights about the two of you stay basic.
Start freeYour relationship map
Everything the Snapshot could see, with the lights on — plus what it couldn't.
$138for both of you · or $79 per person
See a sample8 pages for Jack and Emma, a fictional couple. Tap to open.
What's included
- A licensed TTI Behaviors (DISC) assessment for each of you — natural and adapted style
- 12+ mapped dynamics and 4 Conflict Playbooks, written for the two of you
- The full task bank in all five areas, and full progress history
- Your Map as a PDF to keep or share with a counselor, pastor or coach · see a sample
- Your full reports inside R.O.S. — mark them up, keep your notes private
- R.O.S. Coach — 14 questions a day (24 with an EQ assessment) for 6 months
Individual TTI assessments, from $59
Licensed TTI Success Insights assessments, taken online and delivered by RMC Capital Coaching. Your results come back into R.O.S. and replace the Snapshot's estimates.
This is the real thing, not an app quiz.
These are the same TTI Success Insights reports that CEOs, executives and leadership teams use to hire, coach and lead. They're known for being very accurate. Expect a detailed, professional report written about you, and results that hold up when you read them side by side with someone who knows you well.
Known as the observable language, the Behaviors assessment is our most popular and widely used assessment. This assessment can be used for leadership, sales, and team development. It provides extensive information regarding behavioral characteristics, ideal work environment, value to the organization, and do’s and don’ts to communicating. It also provides insights into how an individual prefers to be managed and motivated. This report shows the HOW of an individual’s behavior.
The 12 Driving Forces assessment answers the question, “why do you do the things you do?” It provides individuals with an understanding of how their motivators impact their decisions and drive them into action.
Emotional Intelligence is critical at all levels of an organization. The EQ assessment accurately measures one’s ability to sense, understand and effectively manage their emotions, and understand the emotions of others. It looks at self-awareness, self-regulation, motivation, social-awareness and social regulation.
TriMetrix EQ is a comprehensive report that consists of three sciences: Behaviors (DISC), 12 Driving Forces, and Emotional Quotient (EQ). It reveals specific details in these three areas that describe the how, why and what of superior performance.
Behaviors (DISC) is the one assessment the relationship map needs (the Couple Map for spouses and partners, the Family Map, or the Working Relationship Report for colleagues): it pairs each person's natural and adapted profiles. 12 Driving Forces, EQ, and TriMetrix EQ add deeper insight on top; TriMetrix EQ weaves all three sciences into one 50+ page report, for $28 less than buying them separately. Prices are per person. Buy two assessments in one order and save $20. Already have a TTI report from a coach, church program, or work? It counts — upload the PDF in the app and it fills itself in.
Ground rules & privacy
R.O.S. only works if you both feel safe using it.
These rules are built into the app, not just written in a policy.
- No ads or trackers
- We never sell your information
- Coach chats stay on your phone
Your privacy
Your data is yours.You choose what your partner sees.
Your raw results are private to you. You choose what your partner sees, and you can change it anytime.
Your notes stay yours.Your partner never sees them.
Your reports and notes are private to you, and saved to your account only if you make one. Coach conversations stay on your phone. Your partner never sees any of them.
Ground rules
No weaponizing.A profile explains. It never excuses.
A profile explains behavior. It doesn't excuse it, and it's never ammunition in an argument.
Both of you in.Best when you both take part.
It works best when both people take part, even if one moves faster than the other.
Progress over perfection.Missed a week? No guilt.
Missed a week? It happens. Restart at the next Huddle, no guilt.
R.O.S. is not therapy.For healthy relationships that want to grow.
It's for healthy relationships that want to grow. If there are safety concerns or deep hurt, a licensed counselor is the right next step.
Free guides
More free help.
No sign-up. Each one works on its own, with or without the app.
Questions
Good questions to ask first.
Is the free Snapshot a real assessment?
It's a 25-question behavioral questionnaire that estimates your natural DISC style, what energizes you, and your top motivator. It's accurate enough to start real conversations. The licensed TTI assessments validate those scores and add your adapted style, your full motivator ranking, and — with TriMetrix EQ — emotional intelligence. New to DISC? Read DISC for couples, in plain language.
Do we both have to do it?
You can start alone and see your own profile right away. The Us page, the shared tasks, and the Map open once your partner joins — by link, by code, or together on one phone.
Do I need an account?
No account to start. Your profile is saved on your device, and you can make a backup code at any time to restore it on another phone.
We're not religious. Is there faith content?
Only if you want it. Each of you chooses for yourself. With faith on, the Spiritual area includes it, and you can send "Praying for you" and keep a shared prayer list. When you both choose faith, you also get Reading together (30 days in the NIV) and a closing prayer at the Huddle. Without it, Spiritual focuses on meaning and shared values, without the faith language.
Is this only for married couples?
No. R.O.S. has lenses for couples, for family and friends, and for working relationships. Every insight and task is rewritten for the relationship you link.
I already took a TTI assessment through work or a coach.
It counts. Upload your Success Insights, TriMetrix, or TriMetrix EQ report and R.O.S. fills in your profile from it.
What does the Coach see, and where does it go?
When you send the Coach a message, R.O.S. sends your message, your profile, your current tasks, the short notes Coach keeps from past conversations (if memory is on), and only what your partner has chosen to share with you to Anthropic, which runs Claude, to write the reply. R.O.S. doesn't store your conversation — it stays on your phone. You turn the Coach on yourself; nothing is sent until you do.
Will it remind us?
If you want it to. Turn on phone reminders in Settings and choose which ones: fresh tasks on Monday, your Huddle 15 minutes before, a midweek look at your goals, a short recap before you meet, 30 minutes before any task or goal you've given a time, and a heads-up when your partner suggests a time, finishes something, or sends a heart or a prayer. Taking a break pauses them all. On iPhone, add R.O.S. to your Home Screen first; the app shows you how.
Can we share our results with a counselor or pastor?
Yes. With your Map, either of you can save a PDF made on your phone, with your styles, your dynamics and your agreements, and send it to a counselor, pastor or coach. It includes both of your profiles, so check with each other first. See a sample.
What if we fall off for a week or two?
It happens to everyone. There's nothing to catch up on: when you come back, R.O.S. welcomes you with one small thing to restart. Streaks forgive one missed day a week. And if you know life is about to get full, Take a break pauses your reminders and freezes your streaks until you're back.
What's a "loop"?
It's the pattern two different styles fall into when things get tense, like one of you speeding up while the other slows down. R.O.S. suggests yours from your two profiles. You name it together and pick a pause word, so either of you can stop it with a smile. Try the 30-second Find your loop quiz under How it works → Hard moments.
Will Coach remember what I told it?
Yes, if you want it to. Coach keeps short notes from your conversations so it can follow up next time. The notes stay on your phone, never on our server, and you can read them, delete them, or turn memory off in the Coach tab.
Can I get a weekly email?
Yes. With an account, turn on the weekly email in Settings. Every Monday at 7 AM you get your week together, one note from your thank-you jar, this week's focus and Huddle time, and a short thought for the week ahead. Every email has a one-tap way to turn it off.
Is R.O.S. counseling?
No. DISC and Driving Forces are useful lenses, not verdicts. R.O.S. is a tool to start honest conversations and build small habits. If your relationship involves safety concerns or deep hurt, please talk with a licensed counselor.
The R.O.S. Report
One thoughtful letter a month.
A short read on how people are wired and how relationships grow, at home and at work, from R.O.S. creator Royce Clemens. The first letter goes out January 1, 2027. No account needed. Not your vibe? Unsubscribe at any time.
Build your BOND.
“It is your direction, not your intention, that determines your destination.”Andy Stanley, The Principle of the Path. The idea R.O.S. is built on.
Takes about five minutes each. No account to start.